Creating an estate plan is about more than just deciding who inherits your assets—it’s about choosing the right people to carry out your wishes. The individuals you name as executors, trustees, and guardians will play key roles in your estate plan, and their decisions can have a lasting impact on your loved ones.
Many people assume these roles are symbolic or default to naming their oldest child or closest sibling. However, each position demands specific skills, a significant time commitment, and careful evaluation of the person’s ability to handle complex responsibilities.
By carefully choosing the right individuals now, you can ensure your estate plan not only safeguards your assets but also upholds the well-being of your loved ones, providing peace of mind that your wishes will be carried out as intended after you’re gone.
Each key role in your estate plan carries distinct responsibilities:
The executor oversees the probate process, which can take nine months to several years, on average. This individual is responsible for gathering assets, settling debts and taxes, and distributing property to beneficiaries. Given the administrative and legal complexity of the role, reliability and organizational skills are essential.
Unlike an executor, a trustee manages any trusts you establish—often for years or even decades. Their duties include overseeing investments, making distributions according to trust terms, and maintaining meticulous records. Since trustees may be responsible for long-term financial oversight, particularly for minor children or individuals with special needs, financial expertise and sound judgment are key qualities to consider.
This person steps in to raise your minor children if you and their other parent are unable to do so. You can designate separate guardians for personal care (guardian of the person) and financial matters (guardian of the estate).
The ideal guardian should align with your parenting philosophy and have both the emotional and practical capacity to provide a stable home. When choosing a guardian, it’s important to consider factors such as their age, location, existing family commitments, and overall ability to take on this profound responsibility.
When choosing individuals for key estate planning roles, several fundamental qualities are essential across all positions.
Since these roles often require a significant time commitment, your chosen representatives must have the availability to fulfill their duties. Likewise, geographic proximity is worth considering, particularly for executors who may need to attend court proceedings or manage physical property in your estate.
Beyond these universal traits, each role requires specific competencies:
Selecting the right individuals for these roles is one of the most impactful decisions you can make in estate planning. The right individuals can help ensure that your legacy is preserved and your loved ones are well cared for.
Deciding whether to assign multiple estate planning roles to one person or distribute responsibilities among different individuals requires thoughtful consideration of your family’s unique circumstances.
Indeed, appointing the same person as both executor and trustee can simplify administration and minimize potential disputes. However, separating these roles introduces checks and balances, allowing someone with the right expertise and temperament to handle each responsibility.
Family dynamics also play an important role in this decision. While family members often have deep insight into your wishes, their emotional ties can sometimes complicate decision-making.
On the other hand, professional fiduciaries bring objectivity and financial expertise, often addressing estate and trust matters efficiently and in accordance with legal and financial best practices. However, they may lack the personal insight into your family’s unique needs and dynamics that a trusted relative or friend might provide.
Additionally, professional services come at a cost, with fees typically structured as either an hourly rate or a percentage of your estate’s value—generally ranging from 1% to 5%. While this expense can be significant, it may be worthwhile for complex estates or situations where impartial decision-making is essential.
In some cases, a hybrid approach—such as naming a trusted family member as guardian while appointing a professional trustee—can strike the right balance between personal insight and financial stewardship.
Finally, no matter how carefully you select your primary representatives, naming backup choices is essential in every role. Life is unpredictable, and your first choice may become unable or unwilling to serve due to unforeseen circumstances.
Most estate planning attorneys recommend designating at least two alternates per role to ensure continuity. Your estate plan should clearly outline when and how successors take over, allowing for a seamless transition when the time comes.
Your choice of executors, trustees, and guardians should evolve alongside your life circumstances. Major life events—such as marriage, divorce, the birth of a child, or the passing of a loved one—typically warrant an immediate review of your selections. Similarly, relocating to another state may introduce different legal requirements, while shifts in personal or financial relationships could make previous choices less suitable.
Even in the absence of significant life changes, it’s wise to review your estate plan every three to five years to ensure your chosen representatives remain the best fit. Be sure to consider whether they still have the capacity, willingness, and availability to serve, as career shifts, health concerns, or evolving family responsibilities may impact their ability to fulfill their duties.
To avoid potential complications, update your appointments promptly and through the proper legal channels. Work closely with your estate planning attorney to formally document any changes, so that your wishes remain legally enforceable and aligned with your evolving needs.
Executors, trustees, and guardians each play a vital role in ensuring your estate plan is carried out according to your wishes. Thoughtfully selecting the right individuals, having open conversations about their responsibilities, and formally documenting your choices are key steps in protecting your legacy and providing for your loved ones.
You don’t have to navigate this process alone. At SageMint Wealth, we work alongside your estate planning attorneys to help you craft a comprehensive financial and estate plan that aligns with your values and long-term goals. Contact us today to take the next step—so you can move forward with confidence and clarity.
SageMint Wealth and LPL Financial do not provide legal advice or services. Please consult your Legal advisor regarding your specific situation.